Young Women, Dating and Self Defense Weapons

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Many Women will undoubtedly experience some form of violence in dating relationships. Self defense weapons can help aid you with your protection against this behavior.  The statistics show one in every third women had experienced violent acts while in dating relationships.

Self Defense Weapons can even out your partner's overwhelming desire to control and harm you.   

Victims come from all social and economic lines, most being women of younger age.  These young adults are at a much higher risk of becoming a victim of a violent date crime. 

Having a safety plan in place at all times is an essential tool for young women.   Many of these men believe that they have the rights to control you and by any means.  These men feel the need to be physically aggressive and will have power over their woman.

Many women believe that the responsibility of problem solving with their relationships is on them.  They consider a jealous and domineering partner to be romantic or that he truly cares.  Women in these types of situations will probably not turn to anyone to seek help.  Their self esteem is gone, they are afraid of what he may do if he finds them.

If all woman knew what early signs to identify on a relationship becoming abusive they may have a better understanding and get out prior to them believing there's nowhere to go; that they are stuck in this abusive relationship without realizing they are even in one to begin with.  You must believe that you are indeed a valuable person who deserves to be treated with respect.  Self defense weapons can give you confidence and certainly the protection you need to take a stand against this abusive behavior.   

It's crucial that you ALWAYS CARRY your SELF DEFENSE WEAPONS.  If you don't carry it, it can't help you. When you first meet an individual that you may feel you want to date you might want to consider double-dating the first few times you go out with a new person.

It's best for your first date that you drive yourself to meet with this person in a crowded environment.

Before leaving on a date, know the exact plans for the evening and make sure someone close to you knows your plans and what time to you'll be home.  Let your date know that you need and are expected to call and let that person know when you are home.

While drinking alcohol be cautious of decreased ability to react.

If you leave a party and go with someone you do not know very well, which you shouldn't do in the first place, tell another person you are leaving and with whom.  Ask a friend to call and make sure you arrived home safely.

Be assertive when required.  Be firm and straightforward in your relationships.

Trust your gut feeling, most times it's correct.  If a situation makes you uncomfortable, be calm and try to remove yourself from the situation as soon as possible.

Make sure you have your self defense weapons with you at all times.  Very Important!

Preparing yourself with safety measures before you go on dates or anywhere is critical.  Self defense weapons can prevent a serious situation.

Carrying a protection device can potentially save you from becoming a victim of a violent crime. Always make sure you let someone close to you know where you are going and who you are with.  Have a game plan just in case something should go wrong and never meet with anyone alone.  Again, preparation is a key component along with self defense weapons on how successful you will be in the event you should find yourself in a bad situation.


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Kim Lesko has 1 articles online

I started this business because I myself was attacked.  I know what it's like to be in a very bad situation without any means of a self defense weapon.  I certainly don't wish this upon anyone, but in today's world now is the time to protect you and your family more than ever.  With the many methods of self defense weapons available today, one should not hesitate in providing themself with a protection device. When it comes down to it, it's you or them.  This is real, It can happen to you as it happened to me.

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This article was published on 2011/06/03